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Every Day May: The Story of My Life in 250 Words

I have been  little behind in my writing and sharing for a while now. What can I say, I am blessed with a full life. But this place, it’s my outlet. And I have been missing it.

So, I read all kinds of things when I get up in the morning. Like reading the newspaper, only it’s not nearly as depressing as that. (And there are days even weeks that I have no idea what is actually going in the world, because I don’t read the actual news.)  I used to read in Google reader, but now that is being taken away from me and I am trying to find something else. That’s neither here nor there, the point is, I found a challenge for the month of May to help me get back into the habit of writing and sharing here.

So here goes…

Today, I am to tell you about my life in 250 words.

Born in a small town in Wyoming. Moved to a smaller town in the mountains. Moved to the reservation. Struggled. Transferred to a larger town.  Grew really tall. Thrived. Moved to a little town. Struggled again. Played a lot of sports. Spent a summer away from home.  Graduated. Went to college to be a marketer and came out  with an economics/ finance degree. Met my husband. Graduated from College. Got married. Moved to a city in Colorado. Got a job. Moved to a smaller city back in Wyoming.  Got another job. Bought a house.  Saw some of the world. Got pregnant. Sold house, bought another. Had a baby boy.  Started taking pictures. Saw a little bit more of the world. Took way more pictures. Sold house, bought another. Sent my baby boy to school.  Saw tad bit more of the world. (there is a pattern I’m seeing here…I wonder what I will do next….) and that is where I’m at now.

And as I read that, I realize, life is not that exciting without some emotion or stories behind the words. I’ll have to work on that.

In other news today, on this first day of May… we woke up to a foot of snow. Happy May Day to us!!!

Happy Earth Day! : Plantable Paper

We prepared a little early for Earth day.  By one whole day.

We were up bright and early yesterday and started tearing up old cards. Don’t get me wrong, the sentiments of cards are awesome, I love them.  I just can’t keep them all. I have a really hard time throwing them away, so every now and again we will recycle a bunch of them.  This time my little Dino Dude was an awesome help and very experimental in his paper making processes. I love the way he thinks sometimes and he was bound and determined to try everything.  Some of the paper we put seeds in and we will be able to plant it as soon as the snow GOES AWAY.  Can you tell how I’m still feeling about the snow?  Others were made with carrots. Blackberries. Spinach. And my favorite strawberry and coffee, it made a pretty dirty pink color…and I’m not going to lie, I love dirty pink.  We wanted to color them naturally for Earth day of course, so nothing unnatural was used.

We basically followed the instructions from here, on a bit smaller scale. Of course we were not able to let them dry out doors because of the GOD FORSAKEN SNOW. But they dried overnight inside and it worked out perfectly. Except we were not able to plant the ones with seeds because of course there WAS SNOW ON THE GROUND .

 

I have many many goals to help celebrate the earth, we’ve tried and been very successful with composting, recycling. Both of which are my son’s little chores to take out. I hope by the time he leaves the house he won’t know any different and continue to do so. I am a recycler of old furniture and clothes. My next goal is to grocery shop without coming home with any plastic bags (which I’ll admit, with a family is harder than I thought it would be.)

Happy Earth Day Everyone. Be kind to our planet and each other!

 

The First and Last

It has been a long time since I’ve seen this family and boy have they changed! First off, they have a new baby! (not really new anymore as he is walking.) Secondly, the oldest is SOOOO BIG!! He can have a full conversation with you. Sing his ABC”s and winks at you like a true boy! This will be my last shoot with them as in true military style, they are moving to far off places. Good luck on your new endeavors guys!

 

 

We Don’t Share the Same Sentiments

This is not exactly how I felt when school was called off today. When it snows two feet in December, I love to curl up with a blanket and a book or a movie with my favorite Dino Dude. When it snows two feet in April,  especially the middle of April,  I feel like a caged animal. Imprisoned. This is the nice way of putting it, in my head, there are many choice words flying around about what I think of snow this time of year.  I’m not a huge fan of spring snow storms here on the plains. I know they happen,  I know that are wonderful for desperately low water levels, but in my mind, when Spring finally comes, all I can think about is the outdoors.  Don’t get me wrong, I went outside today. I built an igloo for our dogs. And all I could think the entire time I was building it, was how long it was going to take for it to melt.

But, if I’m really honest with myself, this negative attitude has lasted longer than the last week or so of snow storms. If I’m honest,  I’ve had a bad attitude about the way I look, my clothes, my hair, the way my pictures look, the way my house looks, the tone of voice of my child,   the way my schedule is becoming overwhelming, the way it keeps changing and being canceled. Broken computers. The news. Bombs on the news. Everyday things are being spun into negativity right now. I know it is part to the weather, but not completely. I know it’s my spin on things.

I read an article tonight. It talked about how to deal with negativity, especially negative thoughts. And the trick… is to catch yourself thinking them, and then immediately make that into something positive.  Stop yourself from being critical about yourself and others. Easier said than done, but definitely something to work on.

So I guess the positive spin on today……I got to spend the day with my baby. Nothing is better than that.

 

Be Sure to Wear Flowers in Your Hair

I haven’t really traveled to a place that I didn’t like. Yes there are some that hold more of a special place in my heart than others, but really, I just like to see the world. I like to wake up and have my coffee in a different coffee shop, see the sunrise from a different window or street. Watch the world wake up in a different way. Watch how life functions from a different point of view.  I have to say San Francisco, out of all the cities,  was one of my favorite. It was relaxed. So were the people. The food was amazing, because much like other American cities, you can stand in the middle of one busy street and choose from Italian, Mexican, Thai, Chinese, Russian or whatever cuisine you are looking for at that specific moment. It’s breezy, but it feels good. The sun goes under the clouds, but it always comes back out. The fog rolls in… but it lifts. The hills go up, but they always go back down too.

My dad told me  of how he was in San Fran the night before he shipped out to Vietnam. The California men bought my penniless father food and drinks though the night.  He could remember them all saying when the sun was coming up… “Awww man…I wish you didn’t have to go.”  He remembered San Fran fondly.

We spent the next few days at a pace a bit slower than the first. Sometimes my husband and I forget that we’ve aged and are reminded of it in the mornings with sore legs and shins from hours of hill climbing. Meanwhile our Dino Dude will keep on skipping circles around us for 18 hours straight, until he just passes out in some obscure place…like the sidewalk, a park bench or the restaurant we happened to choose after he had charmed the waitress.

We spent several hours at Pier 39, full of lovely shopping, performers, wonderful food… and sea lions. Barking, fighting, sunning, swimming, slimy, adorable sea lions.  The Dino Dude got to bungee jump on a trampoline. It made his day. It made me a bit ill to watch him flip and flip and flip over and over and over again. We decided to skip the Alcatraz tour, none of us really were interested in it. I haven’t watched a scary movie in nearly 10 years. I like to focus on the happy. But it was still intriguing to be sitting at lunch and have that sitting out there…kind of a gloomy place looming out past the shores of such a happy-go-lucky city.

It was cold by the ocean so we walked toward down town and saw Lombard street. The most crooked street in the world. We walked to the top and waved at all the cars winding their way down it. At the top we hopped on a trolley(which was on my vitality tally) and then made our way to the Ghirardelli chocolate factory. Where I bought a truck load of chocolate….but only made it home with enough to fill a smart car.

We visited Haight-Ashbury….the street of legends. The little one with us wanted to know why it smelled like skunk, someday I will have to explain that to him.  It’s a famous street where the “hippies” commenced. I bought a shirt in a vintage shop from a man dressed like a Beatle.  My son bought chameleon goggles from a woman dressed like a normal person, and I bet I remember my purchase longer than he will.

We also visited the Painted Ladies. The row of beautiful Victorians made famous by “Full House” and a red convertible with John Stamos (who I had a poster of in my room when I was kid….c’mon girls, didn’t you?)

Our home away from home was just a few blocks from China town.  A couple months ago when we told the Dino Dude that we were going to be close to China Town, he said… the only thing I want on the whole trip is a Chinese finger trap. And by golly, within two steps into China Town, there were some! It was a wonderful busy place. It’s a great place for sushi, which we ate off of a floating boat. Everything was shiny, everyone was bustling in the streets…it was a boisterous street.

On the last day, I made my way down the hill to the coffee shop in the morning.  We wandered around Union Square, window shopping in stores, looking at things we will never have, and never really want, but are fun to look at anyway. We drank fresh squeezed orange juice. We ate a top the roof, overlooking the city. With pigeons helping us.  And then we had to bid San Francisco farewell.

 

 

 

But I could hear it whispering to me ”Aww man… I wish you didn’t have to go…”

Song: If You’re Going to San Francisco, Scott McKenzie

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